Are you a valuable commodity?
Women are naturally drawn to Men who are:
1. Physically Strong
2. Mentally Strong (even without a helmet)
3. Financially Stable (ideally in excess)
4. Good Listeners (without the aid of earplugs)
5. Ambitious (even when they’re awake)
6. Forgiving (especially when She hasn’t done anything wrong)
7. Sociable (even when there are people around)
8. Knowledgeable (in various life topics)
9. Entertaining (but not in excess)
10. Have a good sense of humor
11. Well Dressed and Well Groomed
And are:
12. Intuitive
13. Passionate
14. Confident
15. Caring
16. Romantic
17. Decisive
18. Friendly
19. Cheerful
20. Skillful
21. Conversant
22. Appreciative
and
23. Witty
Women score Men on ALL of the individual traits listed above, based on what they see and hear . And they’re naturally drawn to the Man who scores the highest across the board as a cumulative figure.
The only exception to this is when he stands out from everyone else around by a mile for one or more of these traits. For instance, if he’s the kind of Man who enjoys juggling Lion Cubs in his spare time with just one hand, whilst sipping on a Mango smoothie with the other and he can do all this without getting a single crease on his well-ironed Kiton Suit, then he’ll most likely jump to the number 1 position in the “The Mighty Meows Top 10”, even if he doesn’t do well for any of the remaining criteria.
Women place a huge emphasis on security, comfort, well-being and lifestyle. One of the reasons for that is because Women fear for own ability to provide and fend for themselves much of the time (even when they’re stable enough to buy whole Planets and Star Systems while getting their nails done).
In fact, most Women (even the ones who say otherwise) secretly prefer to be in a position where having to provide and protect themselves is optional and not the norm.
Tony and Sage Robbins in their “Ultimate Relationship Program” makes a comparison between how often Women fear for their safety as opposed to Men. And quite surprisingly, most Women admitted that they feared for their lives almost every day as opposed to Men who feared for theirs only a handful of times over the course of a year and only when they were being chased around by a gang of angry possums in Motorbikes.
Strangely enough, it is because of the high standards Women expect from Men that have allowed the human race to come up higher and strive for more with every generation that goes by. If Men were left to their own devices, they would still be living in caves, stark naked and be playing Video games much of the time, whilst munching on an endless supply of Doritos and Doughnuts. In fact, Men wouldn’t have even bothered to come up with clothing or fashion, if a wise Woman from as far back as 100,000 to 500,000 years ago uttered these 3 life-changing words… “Put something on!”.
But, if you don’t particularly like to be perceived as a tall, dark, and handsome wallet with furry legs, then perhaps it might be a good idea to keep your “financial status” on the down low on your first one or two encounters. Now that doesn’t mean you lie about yourself in any way. But what it does mean is that you don’t lay all your cards on the table within the first ten minutes as most guys do.
Women are extremely tactful about the cards they pull out. They outsmart Men in the relationship and body language departments ten to one. So be reasonably tactful yourself, but honest at the same time.
Now, one way to swing the power in your favor is to familiarize yourself on the art of Body Language yourself (something Women are born with).
And surprisingly, you can become a Wizard on the subject in as little as a few days by reading a book like“The definitive book of Body Language” by Barbara and Allen Pease, a few times over.
Body Language is not about manipulation. It’s about being to read other people reasonably accurately and at the same time being able to portray the best version of yourself.
The benefits don’t stop there. Demonstrating your ability to read other people “accurately”, is in itself incredibly sexy and powerful, because most Women feel misunderstood and unimportant in the eyes of their
Husbands/Boyfriends and Partners. So, it’s a win-win for both.
Besides, if you can convince yourself that she genuinely likes you and not all the material stuff, then what’s the point of holding back anyway?
And if she’s virtuous, caring, cool,considerate, generous, and awesome, then it might even be a match made in heaven.
Some not so sexy stuff:
Just as a side note, I wanted to mention that 90% of relationships that enter into physical intimacy within the first two years, don’t make it. When I don’t make it I mean, neither of them will just suddenly“disappear” or something. It just means that they’ll not stay together.
Also keep in mind that according to the CDC, there are over 110 million cases of STDS in the US alone and that infection rate is growing at 20 Million per year. Symptoms of STDS often lay dormant for years before outbreaks occur.
Here are a few of the reasons why these numbers are so horrendous:
1. Most people fall into the trap of believing that “Wearing a sock half the time keeps their feet clean.”
2. Most people assume that socks are ready for any Marathon can you throw at them right out the pack. But, there’re many caveats that come into play about proper storage and usage.
3. Most couples enter the operating room, believing that if they give the other person what they want or desire, then they won’t leave.
But don’t let this be you!
Life is so much more awesome when you play the game of life SENSIBLY.
